Monday, April 30, 2007

Can a boy and a girl just be friends ?


This is one question which in course of time many people have to face or already have faced... I myself having faced it already and after knowing what the truth is, I would like to shed some light upon it in the exact words of Harry(Billy Crystal):

They can't be friends...unless both of them are involved with other people. Then they can. This is an amendment to the earlier rule. If the two people are in relationships, the pressure of possible involvement is lifted. That doesn't work either. Because what happens then is the person you're involved with can't understand why you need to be friends with the person you're just friends with, like it means something is missing from the relationship and wanted to go outside to get it. Then when you say, 'No, no, no, no, it's not true, nothing is missing from the relationship,' the person you're involved with then accuses you of being secretly attracted to the person you're just friends with, which you probably are...I mean, come on, who the hell are we kidding, let's face it...which brings us back to the earlier rule before the amendment, which is men and women can't be friends.

Kapish!

What do you think of it ?

4 comments:

Niraj said...

Its true but not always, I guess. Anyways good topic to discuss. Keep it up.

anjesh said...

They can if they know how to hide their feelings :)

Sugam said...

hiding again comes to the fact that they cant......although they may hide it from each other but still they would be more than friends to each other no matter what........ani k ho anjesh dai, hiding something or what ?

Anonymous said...

Nepali girls make it obvious what they think of you when they start calling you Dai !! haha

there are signs to suggest, you can be related but can't be not friends !! :)